It feels like a punch to the gut!
So I saw ‘Single Dad’ on Pof today. I was angry so I messaged him (fairly calmly) about it. He had either a very good explanation or a very elaborate lie. What difference does it make at the end of the day whether he was lying or telling the truth?
Why is it after rejection every song you hear has poignant lines about ‘not giving up on love’ and ‘I could treat you better’ etc….?
I don’t like lies either, it would be so much easier if people would stop lying to spare someones feelings and just come out with it. I would rather be hurt by someones truth then be led on just to have my time wasted when I could have been looking elsewhere. What makes it hurt is that the person lying thinks your stupid enough to believe it, it’s a slap in the face.
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Yeah it would be better to know the truth. It’s also much harder when you have to end contact….when you had a good time and they have left things open and you have to say Goodbye!
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